BE KIND
BE SUPPORTIVE
BE STILL
these are things I NEED to work on in my marriage. Cause seriously sometimes I feel like PUNCHING Pulu in his freakin face, and then while he's down kicking him a few times in his rib cage! lmbo No but seriously, I think we all have days like I had today where I needed to step back, "be still" (aka bite my tongue) and TRY to be kind, and patient. Marriage is a beautiful thing, and I totally think this. But it definitely has its moments. I get emails from Oprah and there's always a quote that she sends out and go figure todays quote was. “Love—as grand and as great and as healing as it is—requires boundaries.” This quote is sooo true. Sometimes I feel like Pulu needs to know his boundaries with me. It gets a lil much for me to handle at times. He definitely knows how to push my limits that's for sure. I find it fascinating the way a man and a woman interact with one another. I find it amazing how patient women have to be, more so than a man. Women have to be patient with children, with future endeavors (career, education, hobbies etc) because of responsibilities at home, patience with their husbands who are working, or looking for work, going to school, or aspiring to be an artist, or in between...It's hard being patient. But I know I can be, if I work on it. I know that by working on those 4 things I stated earlier, then my marriage will run a lot smoother. After all I am thee 'El Capit'an of this ship!! :) Hopefully I can get my "SHIP" together!! hehehe
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| The face he makes to me when I'm so mad at him...oh lord please help me, help him! hahaha jk! |
2 comments:
Oh I have them days often. I just have learned to be quiet, rip his head off in my mind and then all is well. LOL It's true what older woman have told me "You need to choose your battles, because most of them really aren't worth it." So being that I'm an elder to you, I leave that with you...ahaha. Love you.
This post made me crack up. I love how honest you are!
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